Is there times in your life where things are Rosie posy in the garden when your man or "A Man" treats you right? Then when he treats you or you feel like he's treating you wrong your whole day is ruined and your Like this crazy green monster, angry at almost everything throughout your day. And some of us get sad or even depressed. I know this because it happened to me before. I let this mans actions on how he treated me determine how I felt and how I precieved myself in life. One minute I was happy when things went all good with us, the next I was the opposite when things were wrong or if I felt he was treating me wrong. I was basing myself, my life, my hapiness on how THIS MAN TREATED ME! Your Security shouldnt be based off a man either.
    If he disrespected you, he calls you out your name, he doesn't obey the standards you've given him, and if he says things to hurt you intentionally.... let me ask you something. (Why haven't you been dropped this Guy?). Ask yourself that...
Are you still with him because of looks? Is it because you hate the fact that you will be lonely? Write this down and ask yourself... does this man really love me? Does he treat me like God will treat and love me? The same night pray on this, tell Hod all about it. As you can see... that man isn't doing anything to progress you in life. He isn't leading you closer to God, he isn't looking
At you the way God see's you. He's downing you and distroying your life. Stoping you from living your life to the fullest with happiness like God says.  " ... I have come so they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly." John 10:10. If you didn't notice... the devil
Is trying to use that guy to destroy you from the amazing life God wants and has in store foe you to LIVE! " The thief (Satan) cometh not, but to steel, kill and to destroy." John 10:10. Is he Steeling your joy? seems he treats you so wrong he's destroying your life? Beautiful, gentle,  lovely Queen... let this man go. Put him into God's hands and leave this man alone because God is a gentleman and he wants you to be treated gently. He wants a man to treat you how he would treat you. Not to destroy your self-esteem or make you seem worthless. All of this is just a distraction from the devil to keep you from working for God and achieving the things God wants you to. God has a great plan and purpose for your life, and he also has the man you will one day marry if you stay on the path he wants you. But the man who you base your happiness off of is holding you back from that. You have to let him go and take a walk with Jesus to find your true self in him. In Jesus their is our real identity. In Jesus we as Queens find our throne (our purpose) and allow Jesus to crown us as we find ourselves and our purpose in him.

  Question:
Who are you?
Do you know your worth?
Have you ever wodered why you were created?

There is only one person who has this answer... God. You will have to seek him out to find out all these things. Getting to know God has been the most amazingest thing in my life. When I'm in God I am loved and catered so much! I am his princess and he is my King. " Draw unto me and will draw into you." James 4:8  Once you get closer to God, he will lavish his love all over you. His love is so beautiful he'll have you waking up smiling. One thing I love about God is when he sings over me in my dreams the songs are so beautiful and delicate. Its kind of like a man singing to you and you get all mushy gushy on the inside... same here but better.  He treats me like his little girl, he protects me, he fights my battles " The Lord shall fight for you and ye shall hold your peace", he doesnt like when I worry, so he wants me to give it all to him and my job is to just relax and adore him and be a loving compationate person he created me to be. God takes care of all that hard stuff for me. Its his job to completly take care of me. Allow God to take care of you like his child you are. His love for me will
Never fade away or shorten for me no matter WHAT! And the same goes for you too. God is so forgiving and mercyful. He gives you what you DO NOT deserve! Find your worth and identity in Jesus.

    A way to peep if this Guy is worth your time or not, observe how he treats his mother this is an identification on how he will treat you. Watch how he treats others, this shows you what kind of person he is. And if you have fallen in love with this Guy, and the relationship has gone bad and it hurts you, its OKAY to cry, while you cry, cry to God. Tell him you need help.

 This is how I see it, your running this race and you see the finish line straight ahead of you, but then you see this sparkly cool looking stick and you get off your path to check this thing out. As you get there you trip and fall over the stick and hurt yourself. It was a trap from the devil to make you distracted from your purpose of winning this race. But guess what? Its just a stick you've fallen over. Stand back up and (Dust yourself off) and
Get back on your race. Get to that finish line girl. Can't nothing stop you now.
Do you know what race your running? This is the Christian race. A race we take to meet Jesus face to face at the end of days to spend eternity with.  The time is coming... so if you've fallen get back on that race. Don't sit there and play with the
Devil and once Jesus comes your over there and not on this finish line, where he is... guess where your going to spend your eternity? With whoever your playing with. Lets Get on this beautiful race with God. As you run, find your worth in God, and find who you are in God. Then you will be
•At peace
•You will be content
•Happy

You will be satisfied with who you are. And where you are in life. You will not be tripping or worried about any men in Your life. You will become one if the happiest people on earth. You wont care if this Guy didn't text or call you, you wont care about how he feels about you because your heart and attention is in Jesus.

I'm going to leave you with this note... DO NOT ACCEPT "SAME DAY" DATES! your worth more than just a $5 restaurant. Meal and a stay at his place.  Your a Queen, dont accept that date. You deserve way MUCH more than that. If he wants to spend time with you he will have to plan a date for you guys beforehand. Allow this man to respect you enough to do that. Lol I've had to learn this the hard way.

Walk as God sees you!

Love you LOTS!